Rites of passage

My ten-year-old son can use the lawn mower. Over the weekend we were raking up leaves and mulching them with the mower. My wife got the mower started (amazing in itself) and was working on mulching when my son asked if he could try. He’s used the mower before, but he could never start it, which makes mulching leaves problematic, as you have to stop the mower to empty the bag every 10 feet. But she let him try anyway. He was even able to start it a couple times. But as often as not, the mower is just too hard to start.

It’s mostly the way it’s designed. It has a safety lever you have to hold down to start and operate it. Let it up and the engine stops. It (mostly) keeps anyone from doing stomething stupid like trying to clear away clogged grass under the cutting deck while it’s still running. But it also means that to start the engine you have to have one hand on the handle and the other to pull the cord. You have to have really long arms–or at least longer than a ten-year-old’s.

But he was really enthusiastic about getting to run the mower. He could do everything else just fine; he just couldn’t start it.

Finally I intervened and invented a temporary clip to hold the safety lever down while he starts it using both hands to pull the cord. He then takes off the clip, and off he goes. I wouldn’t trust all of my kids to do this, mind you. But this son is particularly sensible when it comes to machinery. The rest of the day he was careful to take the clip off once he got it started. And he finished mulching all the leaves (up to that point–leaves is an ongoing task), which was a considerable task.

My wife and I were impressed. He’s the helpful kid. The others hide when work is mentioned, and can’t wait for the task to be over. He’s pretty good most of the time about offering to help and staying with a job until it’s done. Especially if there are power tools involved.

This son also is saving up his money to buy an expensive Lego set he’s had his eye on for much of this year, and has about half of it. At his current rate of allowance he’ll be twelve before he’s got enough saved. He’s usually the first to have all his money spent. For him to have saved even half of what he needs already shows considerable discipline on his part, something that hasn’t been there before. And lately when we do offer money for odd jobs he’s the one that’s most interested and sticks with it the longest.

So we decided to offer to pay him to keep the rest of the leaves cleaned up for the next week. He was all over that. Without us saying a thing he was outside on Saturday cleaning up the previous day’s leaf-fall. He was even able to get the mower started the first time–no small feat.

I think this kid has a job next Spring if he’s still excited about lawnmowers by then. It wouldn’t hurt my feelings at all if I never had to mow lawns again.

More importantly, he’s starting to mature. My boy is growing up. I’m partly sad, partly excited. I think he’s going to be a incredible young man.

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Light Posting

I won’t make any promises for posts the rest of this week. In the spirit of “no good deed goes unpunished” a work assignment that was due next week is now due this week because we finished it’s predecessor two days early. I’ve already got a significant task to finish this week, and I was planning to take two days off at the end of the week. In the midst of all this they’ve also decided it’s time to move my group to another part of the building, so there goes half a day easy. At this point canceling my vacation seems likely.

I love my job. I love my job. I love my job…

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Book Review: “On Writing”, by Stephen King

On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft

I recently finished reading “On Writing”, by Stephen King. It’s a fun read, and I’d even venture to say there’s plenty to enjoy even if you’re not a writer.

For starters, a large portion of the book is autobiographical. Want to know how he became the writer he is? This book will tell you. It’s hardly a glamorous picture, but one every would-be writer should consider. He also includes a lengthy description of his nearly dying after being hit by a van while out for a walk, which I found fascinating.

But the book is also a valuable tool for writers. King goes into detail about what he believes it takes to be a good writer, and manages to strike an amazing balance between giving enough detail to be educational and useful while remaining pithy and brief. Some of his advice should be taken with a pinch of salt–he’s presenting what works for him as if it’s the way to do things, but I know of many other writers who found considerable success doing just the opposite.

But most of his advice is spot on, and all of it is given with useful and interesting examples, usually from his own writing. Ultimately every writer will have to decide for themselves what advice to take and what to ignore–and I believe King recommends as much–but I feel King makes a fairly good case for each point of advice.

One caveat: This is Stephen King, and if you’re not familiar with his work you may be shocked by his language. He doesn’t hold back in this book, either, and not surprisingly includes a section defending his choice to swear in print. This is one place where he and I will need to agree to disagree.

This book came into my life at a most opportune time. I was seriously considering giving up on writing..again. Far from discouraging me with “I’ll never be as good as him” thinking, this book not only made it seem possible again, but reminded me why I write. I’m still writing, and Mr. King is at least partly responsible for that.

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Expose: The real overpopulation problem

Human overpopulation is perhaps a problem, but this startling infograph alerts us to an even greater problem:
xkcd Overpopulation problem

Yes, human beings consume more resources, but when we die we will break down and decompose sooner or later. Lego Minifigs? They’re plastic. They’ll be around forever! There’s no getting rid of them! We’ll be buried in minifigs!

This has got to be stopped!

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In lieu of post

Ever have one of those weeks when everything seems to be stalking you, gathering reinforcements until they’re finally confident enough to pounce and beat the crap out of you?

Me too. Today is Pounce Day. Expect light to non-existent posting until the beat-down is over.

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Pleasant surprise

Last night was Pack Meeting for our local cub scout pack. My wife and I are the Bear Den leaders, and we’d been preparing our bears to present the flag ceremony and several skits for the pack meeting. The last several weeks’ practices were not encouraging. The boys were largely interested in how silly they could act, and were showing no signs of memorizing any of it. We concluded our meeting last week resigned to them falling flat at this week’s pack meeting.

To our surprise, they did pretty well. They got through the official flag ceremony we’ve been teaching them as well or better than other dens have made it through the abbreviated form our pack has been using. They remembered most of their lines in the skits, and did a fairly good job of remembering the stage directions we’d given. It was a rare case of the performance going better than any of the rehearsals.

This batch of boys has really tested us so far this year. They make last year’s bunch look like angels. But after last night we at least have some evidence that they’re paying more attention than we realize. There is hope.

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Music Review: “Invincible” by TSFH

My daughter just introduced me to a new musical group that is just perfect background music for writing action scenes, especially fantasy. She played a few songs for me the other day, and while I liked it, I thought it sounded a lot like generic movie music. Then I did a little research and found out that’s exactly what it is: generic movie music. More accurately, it’s movie trailer music.

Ever notice how, while thrilling and dramatic, the music for movie trailers doesn’t often match up with the actual soundtrack when the movie comes out? I thought they just borrowed it from some other movie, as the soundtrack probably wasn’t finished when they cut the trailer. Sometimes that’s precisely what they do, but other times they hire a music production company to create a musical snippet to match the length of the trailer.

Ever seen the movie “The Holiday”, where Cameron Diaz’ character produces movie trailers, and Jack Black writes the music to go with them? That’s evidently a real job.

The company’s name in this instance is “Two Steps from Hell” (a rather unfortunate name for many reasons, not the least of which being that many people already consider the two-step to be its own special form of eternal punishment). I’m working my way through their album Invincible, and while the constant drama does start to wear a bit under focused listening, it is perfect for background music for writing or anything where energetic music is useful. Many (there are a lot of them, all 2-3 minutes long) of the pieces are quite good on their own.

If I had to compare it to someone, it would be “Adiemus on Red Bull”.

But probably the best thing I can do is leave you with a sample:

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Crackly-crunchy time!

For a little while there it looked like we were going to skip autumn altogether and head straight into winter. I’m glad to say that didn’t happen, and we’re getting a multi-week stretch of crisp, clear days full of bold, earthy tones beneath a blue sky. Mornings are cold, and I’m glad of my new winter jacket, but the days are idyllic.

My boys have discovered the joys of frisbee, and during my vacation last week we spent a fair amount of time out in the front yard tossing the disc around. Every so often it would crash through the branches of the maple tree, releasing an assault force of spinning seeds and the occasional variegated leaf. It’s a time to be outdoors, to savor every last moment of hospitable weather before we begin the long, slushy slog through winter. I even spent half the day Saturday outside cleaning windows just to have an excuse.

Friday we took a hike up the canyon to one of our favorite spots. From the valley it looks like the colors are already starting to fade, but up close it’s another story. The wild scrub oak is all a uniform, uninteresting brown, but many of the trees are still sporting a day-glo orange-pink that would have looked garish if duplicated in any man-made way. I only took our small point-n-shoot camera and vowed not to slow the family down with excessive picture-taking this time, but I couldn’t keep my promise. Such colors must be captured.

Fall is my favorite time of year, and I’m thrilled to actually get one this year. It was more a quirk of poor planning than inspired design that made me take a week of use-it-or-lose-it vacation in the middle of October, but I’m glad I did. The memories of this past week may help me endure the coming winter just a little better. Mother Nature can put on a pre-bedtime show to rival anything the Von Trapp family ever cooked up.

I’m giving this autumn a two-thumbs-up. Way up.

Autumn fireworks

Bell Canyon

Dry Creek

Reflections on a reservoir

Kodachrome carpet

Island of calm

Descent into civilization

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On vacation

So, why haven’t I posted yet this week you ask? Hah, just kidding! No one has said a thing!

I’m on vacation, and as much as I enjoy taking time off, I’m not doing anything meriting an entire blog post. So here’s a sample of my vacation so far to date:

  • Finished cleaning out and reorganizing the shed
  • Helping my wife at the animal sanctuary where she volunteers
  • Providing business and technical support to aforementioned animal sanctuary, including logo editing
  • Getting an oil change for my car
  • Buying a winter coat to replace the one whose zipper fell apart last winter
  • Helping teach knot-tying to cub scouts
  • Playing lots of Carcassone and a little chess with the kids

And that’s just the first few days. The rest of my week may include visiting a state park and hiking up a mountain, weathering a sleep-over of twelve-year-olds, replacing shower fixtures, washing windows, mowing the lawn, and perhaps even doing a little writing. If you’re particularly unlucky there may be more more blog posts.

No promises.

 

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And we’re changing again

My department at work shuffled the deck again this week, re-organizing around our biggest project. I’m changing managers again, for the third time in less than a year. Except this manager doesn’t currently work here. He’s a new hire who will start next week while I’m on vacation. Then I found out that my current manager, who I have thoroughly enjoyed working with, is quitting. Though that shouldn’t really affect me, it does.

I’m usually an early adopter when it comes to organizational change. I’ve never seen much point in resisting, frankly. That change is happening whether you like it or not, so you may as well go with it, embrace it, and see what happens. It’s worked well for me so far. And I intend to do the same this time around, too. But just because I can’t avoid it doesn’t mean I’m excited about it.

For some reason this change is not sitting well with me, even though it makes a certain amount of organizational sense. Even before my favorite manager quit I was uneasy about things. I know some of it has to do with some growth opportunities that were in the works and now are uncertain, but that doesn’t account for all of it. Something is sapping my enthusiasm, and I can’t put my finger on it. It’s somewhat alarming–up until this week I’ve been fairly enthusiastic about my job.

I doubt my job will be going away any time soon. We’re knee-deep in this project, and several other managers who are remaining seem to believe me a key asset. The project itself is unlikely to go away, and even if it did there’s an even bigger one waiting in the wings to filch people from this one.

In the end there’s nothing to be done, really. I can’t act on vague feelings, even though Han Solo and company were seldom wrong when they had their bad feelings about things. Only time will tell how things are going to go. I owe my new manager at least a month or two to get settled and establish his management style. But it just goes to show how quickly things can change. A year ago I had pretty much decided I was going to hang in here for another year, and then start looking for a job with a different company. By six months ago I had moved into a new department and decided the culture and opportunities were good enough that I was happy here. The last six months only reinforced that. Then within the space of two weeks I’m questioning everything.

Not to worry. I am not bold. I won’t be scuttling my career here just yet. There are still many things to be pleased with here. But I suppose this is a reminder to never get too comfortable.

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